In one of my talks recently I had an attendee say: Im kind of a people pleaser but I want to say no to more things. 
I then asked her if she is a people pleaser? Is that who you are? Because who you believe you are is what you ultimately become in life. She believed she was a people pleaser so how could she be anything different if that is who she is?Its incredibly important for us to be aware of what you put after I AM This defines who you are now and will be in the future.One of my favourite questions to ask my clients is: WHO MUST YOU BECOME?When you think about this question and start to shift your perspective accordingly you can start to be this person each day. Remember you are a human being you dont have to do anything to be a certain way. Through time the very person you want to be in 10 years will be that person looking back at you in the mirror.Think of the qualities that are most important for you to have in the future and as you start to integrate them as part of your identity your entire world will shift.
Ben Ivey is an entrepreneur lifestyle expert, international speaker, Tony Robbins Strategic Intervention Coach, and the Lead Facilitator for Zero Suicide Systems Nu-Rekall. After overcoming his own self-sabotage in business, he now helps other entrepreneurs create business success whilst living an extraordinary lifestyle.Ben is the founder of the Entrepreneur Lifestyle Accelerator, supporting overwhelmed entrepreneurs around the globe that are struggling to create the success they desire. His events led by his trainers are now regularly held internationally, working with senior leadership teams of large companies such as Maersk, HSBC, and Coca Cola. Ben is also the founder of the Lifestyle Coach Academy, training lifestyle coaches with the coaching skills, knowledge and business strategies to build a coaching practice online.


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Who you must you become?


In one of my talks recently I had an attendee say: Im kind of a people pleaser but I want to say no to more things. 
I then asked her if she is a people pleaser? Is that who you are? Because who you believe you are is what you ultimately become in life. She believed she was a people pleaser so how could she be anything different if that is who she is?Its incredibly important for us to be aware of what you put after I AM This defines who you are now and will be in the future.One of my favourite questions to ask my clients is: WHO MUST YOU BECOME?When you think about this question and start to shift your perspective accordingly you can start to be this person each day. Remember you are a human being you dont have to do anything to be a certain way. Through time the very person you want to be in 10 years will be that person looking back at you in the mirror.Think of the qualities that are most important for you to have in the future and as you start to integrate them as part of your identity your entire world will shift.
Ben Ivey is an entrepreneur lifestyle expert, international speaker, Tony Robbins Strategic Intervention Coach, and the Lead Facilitator for Zero Suicide Systems Nu-Rekall. After overcoming his own self-sabotage in business, he now helps other entrepreneurs create business success whilst living an extraordinary lifestyle.Ben is the founder of the Entrepreneur Lifestyle Accelerator, supporting overwhelmed entrepreneurs around the globe that are struggling to create the success they desire. His events led by his trainers are now regularly held internationally, working with senior leadership teams of large companies such as Maersk, HSBC, and Coca Cola. Ben is also the founder of the Lifestyle Coach Academy, training lifestyle coaches with the coaching skills, knowledge and business strategies to build a coaching practice online.


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